Tuesday, November 08, 2005

A La Sexy

Maybe I'm inherently sexy?? Maybe. Maybe not. Tiff had a good point about possibly taking some of the responsibility for attracting the aforementioned man's attention. I admit, most of the time I dress to impress. I like to know that I look at least decent if not down-right cute. Dressing "sexily" is not me though. I'm well aware that attire is not the only thing to attract the "eye" and I've been thinking about it. Now, I can add the bit of information that the man in question is a fellow church "brother." I see him (and his wife) just about every week. I like to believe that I'm not acting seductively esp while I'm going about the Lord's work. However, I admit, that I could be. So I talked to my husband about it. He doesn't see it either (he thinks I'm worth his eye 99% of the time. hehe). Regardless, I'll have a talk with God about it and I'll take mental notes on myself. (Benthebald, we'll talk about those scriptures you read.)

5 comments:

Aziza said...

You're right. You can't go wrong consulting God.

princessdominique said...

I agree with Aziza...you can't go wrong.

WIP said...

I know you can't help after having been blessed with Legs. To. Die. For. I swear everytime I recall our meeting. I could chop your legs off at the kneecaps and switch them with mine *smile*. But I am quite happy with the package I'm carrying. Oh, enough about me *smirks*. My husband will be the first to tell me when a guy is about to wreck his company truck for trying to do a double-take while looking at me and my backside(true story). He said that a wise man told him years ago that he needed to think twice if he was with someone that noone else looked twice at. He says that he knows I'm all the eye candy he desires and is sure that others look as well. It sounds like your hubby isn't intimidated in the least about his fellow chu'ch brother and his roving eye. Go to God in peace, but do listen with your spiritual ears. Thanks for taking my cents with a grain of salt. It's always in love. You my homegirl.

Stunner said...

Don't feel nuh way. People were made to look good. If you look sexy then by all meand let others see it. I love to look at a sexy woman, and I'm sure your husband does too. The important thing is that your personality must also attractive.

Brotha Buck said...

Oh, I'm sure you arent being intentional about anything. Some guys just dont care about showing respect to their own wives, to others or church either. Man nerve.